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2026 …

LIB’ERTYnoun [Latin libertas, from liber, free.]

1. Freedom from restraint, in a general sense, and applicable to the body, or to the will or mind. The body is at liberty when not confined; the will or mind is at liberty when not checked or controlled.

2. Natural liberty consists in the power of acting as one thinks fit, without any restraint or control, except from the laws of nature. It is a state of exemption from the control of others.

3. Liberty in metaphysics, as opposed to necessity, is the power of an agent to do or forbear any particular action, according to the determination or thought of the mind, by which either is preferred to the other. Freedom of the will; exemption from compulsion.

4. Religious liberty is the free right of adopting and enjoying opinions on religious subjects, and of worshiping the Supreme Being according to the dictates of conscience, without external control.

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2026

Be that empty

Days full of wanting,
let them go by without worrying 

that they do. Stay where you are
inside such a pure, hollow note.
Every thirst gets satisfied except
that of these fish, the mystics,

who swim a vast ocean of grace
still somehow longing for it!

No one lives in that without
being nourished every day.

But if someone doesn’t want to hear
the song of the reed flute,

it’s best to cut conversation
short, say good-bye, and leave.

—Rumi

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Five Remedies for Sorrow

1. Pleasure (excepting sin)
walking, reading, slowly, softly

2. Tears
slowly, softly

3. The compassion of friends
Rilke, Teddy, Toni, Jonathan

4. Contemplation of the truth
I need do nothing.

5. Sleep and baths
slowly, softly

—Saint Thomas Aquinas

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Responsibility

I must have the right to say “No.” Only I can give myself this right on a meaningful basis. My no is a function of some of the deepest compassionate feelings for myself. This no of mine represents whatever force I can bring against anything in me or outside of me which I recognize as being antithetical to my well-being. This no represents me at my most grown up. This no makes my yes meaningful. Without this no I am without healthy, self-preserving defenses against infantile aspects of myself … Without this no I am indefensible against the demands of other people and their desires.

Compassion and Self-Hate, Theodore Isaac Rubin

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Take Heart

All you achieved was not by accident,
nor by pure luck, nor by a preordained destiny
but by your actions, intentions and aspirations.
You achieved all.
Victory Over Verbal Abuse, Patricia Evans

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