Posts tagged "freedom" — Page 2

Reframe

When we deeply grasp what has happened to us, it becomes clear that we’re doing great. One of the essential shifts in perspective that I’m hoping you’ll take from The Joyous Recovery is to drop the notion, “I need to change what’s wrong with me,” and replace it with, “It’s incredible that I’ve done as well as I have. Now it’s time to do even better.”

Think of healing not as a process of changing, but the opposite: of becoming more truly the person you’ve always been. It’s about going back along the road picking up all the pieces of yourself that were taken from you along the way. We’re not trying to fix what’s wrong with you; we’re trying to set what’s right with you free.

—The Joyous Recovery, Lundy Bancroft

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The Solution

Now you must learn that only infinite
patience produces immediate effects …
Infinite patience calls upon infinite love,
and by producing results now
it renders time unnecessary.
A Course in Miracles

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The Walker

Walking and talking are two very great pleasures,
but it is a mistake to combine them.
Our own noise blots out the sounds
and silences of the outdoor world.
―C.S. Lewis

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petals falling

softly, quietly

when they are ready

―Etsujin

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Reclamation

This means that we can relinquish our claims only to the extent to which we overcome the whole search for glory and all that it entails.

However, unlike a tapeworm cure, in the process of coming back to ourselves every step counts.

Neurosis and Human Growth, Karen Horney

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